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Still breastfeeding!??!

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You have no idea how many times in the last few months people asked me this question… My answer?

“Yes, I am.. Yes, Leo is 15 months old… Yes, I love it… Yes, he loves it…”

Is that a problem?

Sometimes I feel like more you try to make a point and explain why you are “still” breastfeeding, more you contribute to let it become an issue,  I really should not “justify” why I’m still doing it.

I breastfed Bee for 12 months and only stopped because I had to take antibiotics and when they wore off, she wasn’t interested anymore.. and it was hard to deal with… because until I breastfed her, I kept a very special bond with my baby. At 15 months old a child is not a “baby anymore”, so in Leo’s case, yes, I am still breastfeeding a toddler.

This week is Breastfeeding week and I’m still shocked to hear discussions over the topic of Breastfeeding, it really should not even be a question for healthy mums. Think about your children’s education, would you not choose the best school for them? Feeding your children is the same. To me once you have a choice, choosing formula over breastfeeding is like having the chance to send your daughter to the best private school for FREE, and instead you choose to send her to a mediocre public school and you pay for that!

What’s wrong with people?!?

“Mummy mummy look! I’m feeding my baby!”

I spare you all the details about why breastfeeding is the best choice (you can find them in my last year post  or in the post the year before) I just know that the gift of milk we have been given is precious for the baby, so I just do it, whenever wherever. That’s it.

I know I totally sound b***y but I’m seriously fed up with all this debate “Should you do it – how you should do it- bla bla” and when I hear from women (who haven’t any condition which prevent them to breastfeed) “I tried it once and it hurt”,  I’d like to reply “Well wasn’t the same with sex?  Did you give up sex then or did you just try again and “learned” how to do it?”.

I like what I read on The Huffington post: this week let’s celebrate the very ordinary and I’d like to add:

Let’s treat breastfeeding as ordinary and it will become

Win £250 to spend at Petit Bateau for you and a friend!

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When I was packing for our holiday, I checked if some of Bee’s old summer clothes could fit Leonardo. We never bought  lots of pink clothes for her and that means that now we can re-use many of Bee’s bodysuits for Leo. Especially the Petit Bateu bodysuits; their quality after years has been preserved, the cotton is still soft and the fabric doesn’t show any sign of wearing. Therefore when SalesGossip – an online hub of fashion and beauty sales – approached me and asked me to share a Petit Bateau competition, I was more than happy to talk about it as this brand creates truly unique quality products which I love.

If you are not familiar with Petit Bateu, it is a company which has been making french style clothing for over 120 years! Famous for their chic Breton style and iconic yellow raincoats, Petit Bateu are a firm favourite amongs families all over the world including the Royal Family who gave their royal stamp of approval by choosing this brand to dress little Prince George.

Having recently teamed up with the French music and fashion label, Kitsuné, the Petit Bateau adult collection has fast become a fine combination of both a heritage brand and modernity. With fresh new styles and chic prints, Petit Bateau favourites have been given an unexpected twist, making them an exciting unique addition to their original line of clothing.

Sales Gossip is working together with the luxury fashion brand Petit Bateu to give you and a friend the chance to win a £250 to spend on a shopping sprea each! To enter all you need to do is fill in your details here before 29th August, then simply invite your friend to win too!

Just remember the more friends you invite, the more chances you get to win!

Good luck!

Germ freak or hygiene conscious mum?

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If you read my post about being a clean freak, you’d know by now my obsession about cleaning and germs and disinfecting pretty much everything that enters my house (people included if I could!) and items that my children come in contact with. But really if germs were not invisible and you could actually see them, would you not do that too?

When I was at the end of my pregnancy preparing for Leo’s arrival, I could not help but think about the importance for my newborn to be welcomed in an environment as much as possible germ free. I knew I was going to breastfeed him so knowing that I’ll give my baby’s immune system a boost against viruses (breast milk is filled with protective immunoglobulins that work to fight off bacteria and viruses) made me feel better but I felt that there was more I could do in order to protect him.

I started researching online and the only articles I could find were those where the real debate had wrongly switched over to the importance of choosing the right colour for the baby’s nursery rather than focusing on making our homes ready and igienically clean for the arrival of our little bundle of joy. When I searched for more specific information, few articles proved that my paranoia about germs wasn’t absurd. Bacteria for a newborn, whose immune system does not start to develop before 2-3 months, represent an actual risk that can potentially make a baby severly sick… and people need to know about that!

To me nesting meant not only making sure we had all the lovely little clothes cleaned and perfectly folded on a beautiful new white wardrobe filled with smelly cotton sheets and bunny soft toys BUT most of all, it meant making sure I was taking those extra precautions to ensure maximum protection from bacteria and viruses that normally exist around our house.

Leonardo eating sand at the beach, nice!

So what would you need to do in order to REALLY make your home baby ready? Hygiene expert Dr Lisa Ackerley offers the following advice:

  • Changing Mats – make sure that the mat is as free from bacteria as possible by using antibacterial wipes and after each nappy change avoid using baby wipes to clean the mat but again use an antibacterial product
  • Cots –Ensure bedding is hygienically clean by using an antibacterial laundry cleanser ( Dettol one for example, is proven to kill 99.9% of bacteria on rinse cycle temperatures as low as 15°C and it is dermatologically tested therefore ideal for children’s blankets, clothes, bedding, underwear and towels)
  • Surfaces – it is important to ensure that any surfaces where bottles or any other baby item (bib, dummy, etc) is placed are hygienically clean.
  • Hands – wash your hands before and after handling a baby and (if you don’t breastfeed) before preparing baby bottles. Ask other people who come and visit to wash their hands too before cuddling your little one

I don’t think people are actually aware of the importance to properly wash bed linen.  I came across an interesting article where Dr Pixie Mckenna (who you’d probably remember for presenting channel’s 4 “Embarassing bodies”) stresses about the fact that washing at 40 degrees does NOT kill bacterias in our laundry instead the risk is that germs are simply transferred from non-contaminated to contaminated items!

*horror in my face*

Since forever I’ve been using disinfectant gels, antibacterial hand washes, anti bacterial wipes and my latest addition is now  an anti bacterial laundry cleanser! ( my mom always asked me if I was using one). Think about when your baby has got a cold and what his sheets look like after a long night spent rubbing his itchy nose on his mattress to find some comfort. Don’t they deserve a very good clean?

By taking all this precautions, the question I ask myself is “Have I got it all covered?!?” Probably not but what I know is that in my little world I do my best to make sure maximum protection again germs  in my house is achieved.

Now that my children are a bit older washing hands with anti bacterial soap every time we come home is a must, wiping highchairs and tables with an anti bacterial spray or wipes is on order and the same treatment goes for the floor.

Check out my daughter’s reaction the first time she tries Dettol no touch hand wash. I created a monster haha

I’m aware that some germs could do some good and the fact that we live with 2 cats proves that I know how to find the right balance. But to the people who keep saying to me that bacteria is good for kids, I always reply that I’m sure my children have got plenty of other places where they can get germs from, so as much as I can, my house won’t be one of them.

*I was inspired to write this article by Dettol.  I was sent some products to try. Many of these products had already been used by our family and we already love them

Wimbledon final, we are ready!

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I’m not joking, I JUST realised that the World cup is still on! Well, you cannot really blame me, Italy was kicked out very early this time so really not point for me to keep watching footballplayers faking pain, on a grass right?

The real excitment for me is WIMBLEDON! I loooove tennis and unfortunately this year I haven’t had much chance to watch it but I’m all ready and set for tomorrow final where Roger Federer will attempt to win the record of 8 Wimbledon titles if he wins against Novac Djokovic! This is a tough call eh!?!?

Anyway, if the weather is good we are planning to find a place where we can follow the match on a big screen outside,  ideally lying on a grass and having a pic-nic with the children. If the weather is not good (strange enough it does happen sometimes in Scoland :)), we will then be spending the afternoon home, comfortable on the sofa munching treats. So what better treat to get into the Wimbledon final spirit than having some Tennis lemon cupcakes?!

It  literally took me only 1 hour to make two batches (one of cupcakes and one of cakepops) make some quick mascarpone frosting and decorate the tennis balls.

I think they look cute!

Simple and easy lemon cupcake recipe:

  • 125g of softened butter
  • 125g of caster sugar
  • 2 medium eggs
  • 100g of self raising flour
  • 2 tbsp of milk
  • 2 lemons

For the mascarpone frosting

  • 250g of mascarpone
  • 100g of icing sugar
  • green gel colour

For the decoration

  • 100 gr of fondant
  • yellow gel colour

Preparation:

Preheat oven to 180 degrees. Line a cupcake pan with paper liners.
In a bowl or in a stand mixer, beat together the sugar and butter until  fluffy and pale.  Add the eggs one at a time, zest of the two lemons and a little squeeze of juice. Gradually add the flour mixture alternating with the milk. Spoon the mixture into the paper cases until they are 2/3 full.
Bake for 15/18 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in the middle of a cupcakes comes out clean.  Cool cupcakes completely on a wire rack before frosting. To make the tennis balls I spooned the same mixture in a cakepop machine (you can use the cakepop silicone too) and cook them for about 6 minutes.
For the green frosting simply gently mix the mascarpone with the sifted icing sugar and then add few drops at the time of green gel colour until you reach the desired colour.
To decorate the tennis balls first divide the fondant in two equal parts. Roll out some white fondant to 3mm tickness, cut out a circle and used it to cover 3/4 of  each cake pop ( I cut 1/3 of each cakepop so that they can sit better on the grass). To make the fondant stick to the cakepop spread the latter with some butter first. Smooth the fondant and cut off the excess.
To make yellow fondant add few drops of yellow gel colour to the white fondant. Roll it  out a little thicker than the white one, cut a circle and make the additional cuts on both sides. Peel the excess yellow fondant and carefully smooth the yellow bits of fondant on the white cakepop to recreate the look of a tennis ball (I guess you can use these pictures as an example or just get a real tennis ball!) .
To assemble the tennis cupcakes first you need to make “the grass” by spooning the mascarpone frosting into a piping bag fitted with a pierced tip. Squeeze the bag on the top of the cupcake to form grass and gently lift the icing bag up as you keep squeezing. Then stop squeezing and pull it off. The grass should stand upright.
Once you got your grass you just need to place the cakepop tennis ball in the middle and you done!

Cannot wait for tomorrow! It’s going to be an exciting one!! Wohooo!

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